When it comes to fashion, there aren’t any hard and fast rules. Style is deeply personal, making it tricky to establish strict guidelines about what looks “good” or is “correct.” Nevertheless, I believe that having some basic principles can be incredibly helpful, especially when you’re unsure about how to build an outfit or just want a no-fuss approach to getting dressed. These guidelines serve as a handy tool for creating a wardrobe where you can effortlessly mix and match pieces, ensuring you always look polished and chic. Here are my four rules for selecting shoes to pair with skirts, so your outfits are consistently on point.

1. Match Skirt Length with Heel Height

A good guideline for styling short skirts is to remember that as the hemline rises, the heel height should lower. Wearing a micro mini with sky-high heels can distort your proportions and make your torso appear squished, while kitten heels or flats can create a more balanced look. (Don’t worry; even flat boots can give your legs a long, flattering appearance.) While longer skirts don’t necessarily require heels, they can help define your silhouette among the extra fabric.

2. Maintain a Palm-Length Gap

This rule is particularly useful for maxi dresses and skirts to avoid a bottom-heavy look. Aim for at least one palm’s width between the top of your shoes and the hem of your skirt. If you’re showing off colorful or sporty socks, leave that same palm-length gap between your socks and the skirt hem. This approach helps maintain proportion and prevents you from being overwhelmed by a full maxi skirt.

3. Keep the Aesthetic Consistent

Sometimes, the most straightforward choice is the best. Think about pairing tennis sneakers with a tennis skirt, loafers with a pleated midi, or sandals with a linen wrap skirt. Consider the occasion and the overall vibe of your outfit—be it professional workwear or a night out—and select shoes that complement that tone.

4. Embrace the Wrong Shoe Theory

Your footwear doesn’t always have to match the style of your outfit to look great together. For example, workout sneakers can be stylish with jeans and a blazer, or a dress paired with a trench coat. However, I’ve found that it’s better to swap fashionable shoes for practical ones rather than the other way around. For instance, replacing simple Keds with high stilettos might feel mismatched with loose denim. So, if you’re aiming for an “opposites attract” look, try trading flats for sneakers or heels for loafers to keep it practical.